A time that I felt at my best is probably my senior year of soccer at Cedar Falls.
After practicing with the team in 8th grade and playing on the varsity team freshman, sophomore, and junior years, I had observed the ways a team became successful and ways they grew apart. I knew that my senior year, I wanted to make sure this last season was as good as possible. And it was.
I think the best thing about my final season with Cedar Falls Women's soccer team was the fact that there were no cliques; everyone was friends with everyone. For girls, it is easy to fall in to cliques and somehow, someone is always getting left out. Myself and another senior basically took on the leadership roles and made sure from day one to let the girls know that we were all in it together and it wasn't long before every girl was socializing, on and off the field, with everyone else. This was awesome because when we all got along, there was limited drama (solved easily) and made communication through the field during games much easier. Another great advantage to the 'no cliques' team was that everyone, no matter if they were able to play basically the whole game or just a few minutes, felt that they had the same impact on the team's success. We all know that a team can't rely on a single person, a few stars, or even the 11 starting lineup, it takes the twenty girls on the roster to show up at practice and games to encourage, to motivate and to push the rest for a team to be successful. I remember a girl who, although her speed wasn't great, her foot skills weren't up to 'varsity' level, was an incredible addition to the team because she was the most positive and supportive person you could meet! She knew she didn't get as much playing time as everyone else, but that never made her caddy or mean to those who did get the time she was missing.
Another piece of my senior year playing soccer that I feel put me at my 'best' and definitely made a positive impact on the team was when someone was feeling down, disappointed or upset, I always felt it was my responsibility to help cheer them up, and I loved it. I know the game better than a lot of people and was able to talk to them, encourage them that they did well and if they asked me how to improve, I would usually be able to provide insights. I would even stay after practice to let people take shots, run drills or help them figure out ways to improve on whatever they needed. I have never been the most coordinated when it comes to foot skill, but being a goalkeeper allows me to see the whole field and understand the strategy and best ways to play towards a win.
At the end of the season, we have an awards ceremony where my coach gives out letters, Mississippi Valley Conference awards, and team awards such as 'Most Valuable Player' 'Most Improved Player' and the 'Fury' award. However, she decided that this year's Most Valuable Player would be up to team vote. I was awarded the MVP award! When they gave it to me, they said it was for my hard work, my constant encouragement, because I always had extra water (carried about 5 water bottles at all time so that the girls didn't get dehydrated), and because I was almost like the team mom to all. I was so surprised and felt very proud of the work I had done to help make that team such a success!
I miss the girls on my team and keep a team photo on my desk in my dorm! Those girls together probably made the best group of girls I have ever, and will ever meet! I'm so excited to go home and watch them play this year, and can't wait until I have my coaching licence to coach a team of my own!


It sounds like you had a very good influence on you team and you definitely deserve that award. My senior year of football to went very well due to seniors with the attitude you had.
ReplyDeleteCongrats for being the MVP! I know what you mean when you talk about girls teams having drama. I wish that I would have had just one season without any drama and when everybody just got along to make the team better. Unfortunately this did not happen. There was always a lot of drama no matter what sport it was. I'm glad to hear that you didn't have to go through that your senior year of soccer.
ReplyDeleteCongrats I had the same feeling when I played even though our team wasn't the greatest. But definitely like your motivation, attitude, and strive to help others. Well done
ReplyDeleteNice! MVP is a pretty sweet accomplishment. Especially since it was for something you were passionate about. Great work ethic.
ReplyDeleteThat's really cool about your soccer teams. It seems like you're really good at soccer, I'll have to go watch you sometime.
ReplyDeleteMVP is such an amazing thing in any sport. Congratulations on that. I was never really into soccer and my high school didn't have a team, but it was something that my cousin participated in and she also said it was one of her best moments. Every team needs a leader and it sounds like you filled the role well. I am sure you will be a great coach in the future.
ReplyDeleteThat's such a great honor!!! I was in soccer in high school too but I did it for the enjoyment of meeting new people and surrounding myself with others. I was very involved with my music department and dance so I felt like I was always with the same people so I took on soccer and loved every minute of it! I played varsity my junior and senior year and I received the Most Improved Player since I had never played soccer before high school :] Congrats on your amazing leadership in soccer as well as your MVP award!!
ReplyDeleteCongrats on being voted MVP. Not only is it special because it is a prestigious award but it is also voted on by your peers and that means that they felt you deserved it. That's definitely something you will always remember and look back on to. Not only did you have fun but you also gained some great experience in a leadership role.
ReplyDeleteCongrats on all the awards and accomplishments. You are 100% right about what it takes for a team to be successful. Even if you don't play, you can be a huge part in your team's success.
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